A partnership between East Riding of Yorkshire Council’s domestic violence and abuse partnership (DVAP) team and the RSPCA, is aiming to raise awareness about domestic abuse.
The council will host free online sessions to raise awareness of how perpetrators use pets to coercively control victims by threatening, harming or withholding care from a much-loved pet. For many victims, fear for their pet’s safety can be a significant barrier to seeking help or leaving.
The sessions will be held on Wednesday 14 and Wednesday 21 October and are aimed at anyone whose work brings them into contact with animals and their owners. This can range from veterinary staff to groomers, pet sitters, kennels and catteries or animal-related businesses.
The sessions will explore the links between domestic abuse and harm or threats towards animals. This includes how domestic abusers can use pets to coerce and control victims, and why concern for a pet can make it more difficult for someone to leave an abusive relationship.
They will also provide guidance on how professionals can signpost someone for specialist support and to respond safely and sensitively to keep both people and pets safe.
The work forms part of Domestic Abuse Awareness Month, this October. This year’s theme of ‘spot the signs, start the conversation,’ focuses on the vital role everyone can play in recognising abuse and helping those affected.
Residents are encouraged to be aware of the signs that someone may be experiencing abuse.
This can include changes in behaviour, mood or confidence, withdrawal from family and social networks, or unexplained injuries or frequent ‘accidents’
It can also involve a partner who is overly controlling, jealous or checks up constantly, or limited access to money, transport or communication.
Residents are encouraged to support friends and family, including listening without judgment, reassuring them that they are not alone, and that the abuse is not their fault. It is also vital to ensure victims know they are not isolated and that support is available.
Councillor Lyn Healing, East Riding of Yorkshire Council cabinet member for communities and public protection said: “We’re committed to working with all parts of society to tackle violence against women and girls. It’s great to work with the RSPCA and pet professionals to raise awareness about this vital issue
“Nobody should suffer alone and the council’s DVAP website provides information and support. In urgent matters, where there is a belief of immediate danger, always call the police on 999”
Professional and self-referrals (calling about your own situation) can be made by calling 01482 396368 or completing the online DVAP self-referral form.
The DVAP team, work with housing for anyone placed in temporary accommodation due to domestic abuse and will offer emotional support to those dispersed from home.
Interested professionals can register for the Wednesday 14 October session here or for the Wednesday 21 October session here
If you need immediate support in an emergency or are concerned for your own or someone else’s immediate safety, please always ring the Police on 999.
Alternatively, you can ring the Police for a non-emergency on 101.
The DVAP Webpages provides lots of safety information - www.eastriding.gov.uk/living/crime-and-community-safety/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-adult-services/
– For emotional support and information, you can contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline (open 24/7) on 0808 2000 247.
– Finding Legal Options for Women (FLOWS) is a legal support service to help protect women against domestic abuse FLOWS | Finding Legal Options for Women Survivors Phone: 0203 745 7707 9am-5pm Monday to Friday or Email: flows@rcjadvice.org.uk
– Male victims of domestic abuse can call 01823 334244to speak to ManKind, an initiative available for male victims of domestic abuse and domestic violence across the UK as well as their friends, family, neighbours, work colleagues and employers.
– Alternatively, the Men’s Advice Line can be reached at 0808 8010327, or emailed at info@mensadviceline.org.uk.
– The National LGBT Domestic Abuse Helpline is 0800 999 5428 Galop – the LGBT+ anti-abuse charity
Childline
Anyone aged under 19 can call Childline for support on a range of issues, whether they are living in a house where domestic abuse is happening or experiencing it themselves.
The charity’s phone lines are available 24/7 on 0800 111 111.
The Blue Door
Offering support for people across Humberside who have been a victim of domestic abuse and sexual violence.
Contact the helpline on 0800 197 47 87, at their office on (01724) 841 947 or email info@thebluedoor.org .
Refuge
The UK’s national and leading charity for victim’s of domestic abuse and violence.
Refuge offers a 24-hour helpline as well as help fleeing abuse and advice on your legal rights.
Contact them at any time of day or night on 0808 2000 247.
Karma Nirvana
Help and support for women and girls who have been victims of honour-based abuse or forced marriages.
You can contact their helpline on 0800 5999 247.
